Buying isn’t Selling

Buying isn’t Selling.  A clients walks in to your business, asks for X and you give it them.  Have you sold anything?   

Selling can be defined as ‘exchange for money: to exchange a product or service for money, or be exchanged for money’ – so technically, yes you did ‘sell’ something.  But they bought something which they convinced themselves they need or want – you just happened to have what they wanted.

Continuing this story – this customer then complains – they come back to you and say ‘you sold me this product/service, and it doesn’t….’.  True!  You created this problem by focusing on the ‘sale’ – not what the client really needed by determining what problem they were looking to solve or opportunity to capture.

Selling is defined above – but it is what happens before this exchange which creates a relationship – and from a relationship regular ‘sales’ can happen, sometimes no ‘sale’ as it’s not in their best interest, maybe a different ‘sale’ and, even better, sometimes your client will ‘sell’ for you if you do it properly.

Don’t focus on the sale – focus on the journey to this point. 


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